# Tweets From Visa Is Doing Final Edits ✍🏾📖 **Covers**:: **Source**:: [Tweets From Visa Is Doing Final Edits ✍🏾📖](https://twitter.com/visakanv) **Creator**:: [[@visakanv on Twitter]] # Highlights ##### ^251937223 Goto: https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1462734811865313284 ###### ^251937223q people might have to hear you repeat yourself a dozen times in different ways over 5 years before they get what you’re saying, and this has nothing to do with you ^251937223 ##### ^252024403 highlight_tags:: [[religion]] Goto: https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/998907800443998208 ###### ^252024403q People who inherit their models from some in-group are especially subsceptible to this. In-groups often have sacred truths that cannot be questioned - violate this and you get excommunicated. It’s actually quite rational for people to prioritise group loyalty over model accuracy ^252024403 ##### ^252025196 Goto: https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1174930529633701888 ###### ^252025196q Anyway so let’s review 1. I have a very feral knowledge graph that goes wide and deep 2. I get singled out a lot, so I’m forced to learn to be comfortable with everybody’s eyes on me When people talk about being afraid of public scrutiny, I can’t relate. I was raised in it ^252025196 ##### ^252025209 Goto: https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1174935204625936384 Is [[community]] gated behind social ability for certain people? ###### ^252025209q Which is why I put in so much effort into making friends, into being kind, into building a rigorous social graph of people who care about me. To me it’s abt survival. I don’t have a social safety net. Have you read history? People get displaced and cast out, just like that https://t.co/GwpfnTFHjC ^252025209 ##### ^252025232 Goto: https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1013801783741669381 [[autism]] adjacent? ###### ^252025232q 4. Social reality is a Game Of Signals. I grew up very averse to this game, but have learned that there’s no way to opt-out, so we might as well get good at it. Everything we do or say (or not-do or not-say) is a signal https://t.co/p5zp6oOJHd ^252025232 ##### ^255253491 Goto: https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1466496066044366850 [[happiness is enlightenment and sadness is delusion]] #TO/TEND/CONNECT ###### ^255253491q @shiraeis Emerson called it almost 200 years ago too many people are living their lives with dead eyes, as an ordeal, an obligation what the world "needs" is people who have come alive, who are joyful, who love living everything else is downstream of that https://t.co/dhU5NsCWlk ^255253491 ##### ^255689566 Goto: https://twitter.com/visakanv/status/1467244236093280257 ###### ^255689566q whatcha think about this: "there are two primary ways to facilitate a change of heart: tears, and laughter. these deep, rumbling vibrations create cracks in the fortified walls that confine the heart. Cracks, that, as Leonard Cohen put it, allow the light to get in." ^255689566