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#### [[Stupid rules are made to be broken]]
[[Stupid rules are made to be broken]] is something that my mother said to me, which is ironic because I then went on to break many of the rules that she did NOT think were stupid.
^[[[My Deconstruction journey]]]
This idea was the foundation for my sense of [[justice]],
^[the combination of [[Autism]] and [[Religious concepts are often too powerful for a child's mind]] really brought this home for me]
which I think is why this was much more impactful than she realized. To her it was just saying, "It's okay to eat a little chocolate even when it's not your cheat day," but for me it was the seed of the idea that the [[law]] does not always bring about [[justice]]. This seed developed into my dissatisfaction with the unfair systems, and systemic bias.
- [[Transformative justice is the alternative to punitive justice]]
- [[The way systems work can create cognitive bias]]
- [[Colonization and slavery lead to generational disparities in black communities]]
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I wonder if mom's sense of justice came more from the fact that she was entitled and less from any sense of true [[justice]]. I think she does have that sense, but I'm not sure
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**Status**:: #EVER/GREEN
*edited 7:35 AM - July 08, 2022*
**Topics**:: [[social justice]], [[fairness]], [[Life principles]]